Fourth Sunday of Advent

12-18-2022Pastor's CornerVery Rev. Robert J. Deehan, VF

During this season, we’ll probably hear more than once the familiar song: “It’s the Most Wonderful Time of the Year.” But, for some among us, it’s really not. If anything, they might say just the opposite. That’s because this time of year is very difficult for them. There are a number of circumstances which can make it so.

Some people are grieving the loss of a loved one. I can identify with this as I lost my sister, Eleanor, this past summer. For these folks, this season brings back some fond memories, but they are tinged with sadness. Other people are facing financial hardship and are unable to provide gifts for their family members as they usually do. Still others, who are affected by divorce, are adjusting painfully to a new reality in their family life. Christmas just won’t be the same for them anymore. Caregivers will find their focus, not on the festivity of the season, but on the necessary routine of providing the care and attention a loved one depends upon for their health and wellbeing. Families contending with an addicted member may face a special challenge during this season. Some medical personnel, public safety officials and members of the military won’t be home for the holidays leaving a void around the family dinner table. Maybe you have a special circumstance that makes this time of year not so “jolly.”

It’s OK to feel this way. You’re not alone. When you think about it, on that first Christmas, Mary and Joseph found their circumstances very difficult; rebuffed by innkeepers, Mary had to resort to giving birth in a stable among animals. Yet, the Lord Jesus came forth and blessed them with His presence and peace. Can we take some solace in that hope for ourselves, our loved ones and our friends who may find this time difficult? Let’s include a special remembrance of them in our prayers this season. Perhaps, we can let them know that we are thinking of them and are praying for them. Our outreach will provide a concrete expression of God’s care for them not unlike what God did in becoming one of us in the person of Jesus! That will truly bring some joy and hope to their heavy hearts because you thought about them and showed you care.

God bless you!

Fr. Bob